This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

Save this before your next trip.  Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.  That’s what I’m here for.
👀 👀
Clocked out. Locked in. #summer #beach #beachin # Clocked out. Locked in.  #summer #beach #beachin #gulfshores
Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thi Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thing about taking a trip. This time at the beach we tried a few new places and some unique bites. Here is my list. 
1. @parlordoughnuts - French toast donut was my favorite bite all vacation. The donuts are huge and a dozen lasted us 3 days. 
2. @gulfshorescoffeeco - I was excited for this because they were so close to our condo. The coconut cold brew was my favorite and the cans made it so easy to take the the beach. Kids loved the dirty sodas. 
3. @delsicecreamob - we have ice cream every night on vacation. The red velvet and the iced box lemon at dels was amazing. 
4. @hightidedaiquirismimosas - a new to us place. Came straight off the beach for the most satisfying lunch. Pizza paninis and waffles on a stick. Obsessed. 

What is your favorite spot?
Figured it out. #healed Figured it out. #healed
All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summer All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summerofyes
Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation wit Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation with business owners, creators, and brands I notice the same thing.

Nobody is using them.

Instagram rolled this out quietly at the end of 2024 and most people either don’t know they exist or aren’t sure what to do with them. So let’s fix that.

Trial Reels are one of the only ways Instagram lets you get your content in front of people who don’t follow you yet. They show your reels to non followers through the explore page and reels feed. That is new eyes, new followers, and new potential clients — without paid ads.

Here is what you need to know:

-Trial Reels are only available to professional accounts and some creator accounts
-They gain traction for 24 hours — after that views stop
-You can run a trial at the same time you post to your feed
-They are not just for new content, repurpose your best performing reels

I have used them consistently and have seen my follower count grow because of it. The content that performs best is funny, engaging, or tied to trending audio. Stay away from talking head content unless it stops someone in the first second.

This is a feature worth adding to your strategy right now.

Save this and post your first Trial Reel this week.
Follow me for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.

That is what I am here for.
June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want y June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want you to remember that it’s important because everyone deserves a place and to be their true selves without fear of abandonment or harm. #pride
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Dressing Tips, Fashion, Plus, Style, Trends · January 1, 2025

Dopamine Dressing: 10 colors to wear in January and February

As the winter months settle in and the days grow shorter, the lack of sunlight and constant gray skies can really impact my mood. But don’t worry—there’s a fun, fashion-forward way to beat those winter blues: dopamine dressing!

Tiffany in a pink and red dress with a pink jacket

Dopamine dressing is all about choosing colors that spark joy and elevate your mood. Bold, bright hues can instantly boost your spirits! When you wear vibrant shades, you’re not just making a fashion statement—you’re giving your brain a little happiness boost. And what better time to embrace these cheerful tones than during the gray, dreary months of January and February?

Tiffany in a red suit
Tiffany in a red suit
Tiffany in a red suit

Here are 10 fabulous colors I am trying to incorporate into my wardrobe during these gray months:

  1. Sunny Yellow: A burst of sunshine on a cloudy day, yellow is known to evoke feelings of happiness and warmth. Try a yellow sweater or accessorize with a mustard-yellow scarf to brighten up any outfit.
  2. Blush Pink: This soft and delicate shade of pink brings a sense of calmness and elegance. A blush pink sweater or a flowy blouse can add a subtle yet cheerful touch to your winter wardrobe. This color exudes a gentle charm and pairs beautifully with various outfits, offering a sophisticated and soothing alternative to brighter hues
  3. Royal Blue: Regal and serene, royal blue brings a sense of calmness while remaining strikingly beautiful. A royal blue dress or a statement blazer can add sophistication to your look.
  4. Emerald Green: Symbolizing renewal and vitality, emerald green is a refreshing choice. Incorporate it into your wardrobe with a cozy green sweater or a pair of elegant green trousers.
  5. Vivid Purple: Purple has long been associated with creativity and imagination. Add a touch of flair with a purple scarf, blouse, or even statement accessories like earrings or a handbag.
  6. Cheerful Orange: Like a burst of citrus, orange radiates energy and enthusiasm. A pop of orange in the form of a jacket or a fun pair of shoes can instantly uplift your mood.
  7. Magenta Pink: This bold and vibrant shade of pink exudes confidence and femininity. Consider a magenta sweater or a chic pink skirt to add a playful touch to your outfits.
  8. Turquoise: Reminiscent of tropical waters, turquoise brings a sense of tranquility. Experiment with a turquoise top or a pair of earrings to add a refreshing vibe to your look.
  9. Sunny Coral: A delightful blend of pink and orange, coral is both playful and sophisticated. A coral dress or a cardigan can add a cheerful touch to your winter wardrobe.
  10. Bright Teal: Teal combines the calming properties of blue with the rejuvenating qualities of green. Incorporate this color with a cozy teal scarf or a stylish top.

Just a few of my shopping picks for these colors…

Remember, you don’t have to go all-in with bold colors if that’s not your style. Even small accents or accessories can add a pop of vibrancy to your outfit and brighten your mood.

This January and February, tap into the magic of dopamine dressing. Let your wardrobe become a source of positivity, bringing bursts of color and joy to even the gloomiest days. Don’t be afraid to experiment with lively hues—you might be surprised at how they uplift both your style and your spirits.

XO,

Tiffany

Check out more January fun with my Year of Mood Boards here!

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This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with m This story is from 2019 and it still sticks with me.

We were at the pool and one of my boys came up and told me a kid had called me the fat mom. We all just sat there for a second, looking at each other. I asked him what he thought.

He said, “I told him to shut up. Most days you look like a princess.”

My boys were ready to defend me. They just knew it wasn’t a nice thing to say.

I struggled with how to respond. I want them to know words can hurt. I also want them to know they hold the only opinion that matters about their own bodies.

So I told them, “Mommy isn’t skinny. But that doesn’t matter. I love wearing a bathing suit and swimming with you, and I am never going to let someone else’s opinion stop me from doing that.”
If I had cried, or asked them if they thought I was fat, or left the pool, I would have taught them that someone else’s opinion had power over me.

That is not the lesson I want them to carry.

People need to see all bodies in swimsuits. When we hide, we send the message that our bodies don’t belong in the same spaces as everyone else’s. That is wrong.

Wear your swimsuit. Take up space. Show your kids that all bodies belong, including yours.

If I am fat, I am fat. That is part of who I am. It is not who I am.
I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I w I used to feel like I was “on” the entire time I was on vacation.

Always looking for the shot. Always thinking about what I could post later. It started to take away from actually being there.

So I changed how I do it.
Before I go, I make a simple shot list. Not a schedule, just a few categories of content I know I want to come home with.

For this trip my list looked like:
-A water park post
-Favorite bites while we were there
-What I wore to the beach recap
-An aesthetic recap of -the whole trip
-Swimsuit pics for LTK
-A few extra images for carousels throughout the summer

For the water park, I knew exactly what I wanted before we even got there. It came out to about 8 images. I got them early, put my phone away, and just enjoyed the day with my family.

One trip. Content for the whole summer and I actually got to be there for it.

Save this before your next trip.  Follow for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.  That’s what I’m here for.
👀 👀
Clocked out. Locked in. #summer #beach #beachin # Clocked out. Locked in.  #summer #beach #beachin #gulfshores
Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thi Eating out on vacation is probably my favorite thing about taking a trip. This time at the beach we tried a few new places and some unique bites. Here is my list. 
1. @parlordoughnuts - French toast donut was my favorite bite all vacation. The donuts are huge and a dozen lasted us 3 days. 
2. @gulfshorescoffeeco - I was excited for this because they were so close to our condo. The coconut cold brew was my favorite and the cans made it so easy to take the the beach. Kids loved the dirty sodas. 
3. @delsicecreamob - we have ice cream every night on vacation. The red velvet and the iced box lemon at dels was amazing. 
4. @hightidedaiquirismimosas - a new to us place. Came straight off the beach for the most satisfying lunch. Pizza paninis and waffles on a stick. Obsessed. 

What is your favorite spot?
Figured it out. #healed Figured it out. #healed
All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summer All inclusive. Allegedly. #kingfamilyvacay #summerofyes
Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation wit Every time Trial Reels come up in conversation with business owners, creators, and brands I notice the same thing.

Nobody is using them.

Instagram rolled this out quietly at the end of 2024 and most people either don’t know they exist or aren’t sure what to do with them. So let’s fix that.

Trial Reels are one of the only ways Instagram lets you get your content in front of people who don’t follow you yet. They show your reels to non followers through the explore page and reels feed. That is new eyes, new followers, and new potential clients — without paid ads.

Here is what you need to know:

-Trial Reels are only available to professional accounts and some creator accounts
-They gain traction for 24 hours — after that views stop
-You can run a trial at the same time you post to your feed
-They are not just for new content, repurpose your best performing reels

I have used them consistently and have seen my follower count grow because of it. The content that performs best is funny, engaging, or tied to trending audio. Stay away from talking head content unless it stops someone in the first second.

This is a feature worth adding to your strategy right now.

Save this and post your first Trial Reel this week.
Follow me for more digital strategy tips every Tuesday.

That is what I am here for.
June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want y June 1st the beginning of Pride month and I want you to remember that it’s important because everyone deserves a place and to be their true selves without fear of abandonment or harm. #pride
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